WOW! ing for Ramadan in Morocco

ラマダン30日を体験して思った事

Ramadan is almost over, and I can feel that people here are getting ready for Eid. As a non-Muslim living in Morocco, I would like to share some things I’ve experienced during this 30 days. And, the best word to describe all is; “WOW!”

そろそろラマダンも終了、ローカルの皆様はEidに向けて準備に大忙し?なのでしょうか。私はクリスチャンですが、ラマダン30日をモロッコで過ごした感想をいくつか綴ってみます。

“The first WOW!” Everyone, really, EVERYONE fasts. Taxi drivers, Hanout (little neighborhood shops – kind of like 7-11 of Morocco) guys, Hammam ladies, our security guard… everyone does. No cheating, except cats on the street. Of course, people with an ongoing disease, pregnant women, small children, etc. can adjust/skip the practice. God is flexible, God is kind.

まず、とにかく「み〜んな断食する」。タクシーの運転手さんも、コンビニのお兄ちゃんも、ハマムの垢すりおばちゃんも、みーんな。誰も飲まない、食べない、タバコも吸わない。呑気に食べてるのは野良猫ちゃん達くらい。もちろん、例外もありますし、子供さんや妊婦さん達は臨機応変に対応🆗なところは、さすが優しい神様です。

Do you remember, during Covid-19, we would hear “We Are All in This Together” but we were not really together (at least in the US), because there were always some “anti-something” people who just didn’t get the message? Well, not during Ramadan, at least that’s how I felt here. People were all in the Ramadan spirit, so we decided to join, too. We didn’t eat or drink during a day outside for a month. Restaurants were open for the tourists and Gaijins (“foreigners” in Japanese) but we just didn’t feel like it. Was it easy? No, especially because we normally walk 10000+ steps a day 🙂 But I am glad we did – because now, I can appreciate the normal café opening hours.

思い出すのがコロナ禍の時。”みんな一緒に乗り気ろうね!”のキャッチフレーズと、それに乗らない方々も多かったアメリカを思い出します。マスク反対派、ワクチン反対派、と、いろいろありましたが。さて、ラマダン中、私たちもこちらの皆さんに合わせて、断食時間は家以外での飲み食いはしませんでした。毎日徒歩移動のため水を飲まないのはきつかったですが😬、これからカフェなど利用できる時の感謝率が倍増しそうです!

“The second WOW!” This is a time for connecting with family and friends and reassuring how precious human relationships are, and Moroccan people are so good at doing that with FOOD! They are also good at FEEDING FOOD! We were so lucky to have a couple of Iftar meals, (Shukran Bzaaf! Mouna’s family & Muhamed’s family!). And oh boy, we ate & ate – lmakla bnina (delicious food)! I can have Iftar every day – but then, I should have to go to the gym every day. Our lovely Darija class teacher at school even shared with us a special Ramadan “Power Snack” called Sellou. Our neighbor gave us Chebakiya cookies. We are so thankful! 💕

ラマダン中は、断食明けのお夕食、イフタールへの情熱がすごい!必ず食べるべきメニューはあるようですが(ハリラスープ、デーツ、シュバキヤ・クッキーなど)、それに加えて何品にも及ぶお料理。そして、何よりも『もっと食べなきゃ!はい、もっと取って、食べて!』と、まるでふるさとに5年ぶりに帰省した気持ちになります。これが全部美味しいので、やばいです。Iftar毎日オッケーです。でも、みなさんは断食あけのお食事。私は断食はしてなくてこの量。太りますね。ジムに通わないと、です。ダリジャ語の先生から「パワースナックよ!」というセルーもいただきましたぁ。

“The third WOW” I didn’t know Moroccans drive like Indians in Delhi or Mumbai. At around 4pm, during Ramadan. Lots of honking and speeding up, to go home for Iftar. I bet there is even a feeling for survival, after not eating & drinking for more than 12 hours. I totally understand that the traffic gets crazy. However, it is not a good time to stroll for pedestrian (like me) to take a leisurely walk. But then, at around 6pm, it gets all sooooo quiet – and streets are only for Gaijins and chats🐈. What a difference.

断食は12時間以上続く、と言う事はおタバコを吸う方などはそりゃぁ最後の1〜2時間は辛いですよねぇ。そうでなくても、『あともう少しで飲める!食べれる!』となったら、それは早く家に帰りたい。と言うわけで、午後4時5時ごろの道路は大混雑&大混乱。インドにいるかと思うくらい。ラバトでこれなら、カサブランカとかどうなっちゃうんだろうなぁ。この時間帯は、命懸けで横断歩道を渡りますが、逆に6時ごろになると、人っ子一人いない、殺風景な雰囲気。変なガイジン達と野良猫のみの怪しい夕暮れとなります。

“The Fourth WOW!” Certain stores and restaurants COMPLETELY close during Ramadan. My husband learned in a hard way. I am talking about “Adult Beverages.” Here in Rabat, it is not difficult to purchase or drink wine or beer normally. In fact, there are a couple of wine shops near our apartment (dangerous), and Carrefour has a special adult beverage section called “The Cave.” Olof (my husband) likes The Cave. But, during Ramadan, his man-cave is closed (more like “sealed”) for 30 days. Restaurants don’t serve alcohol, and bars are closed either. Poor Olof. Next year before Ramadan, he knows what to do… in advance!

お酒を飲まない私にはあまり辛い事ではなかったのですが、バイキングの血を引く旦那くん、”ラマダン中はお酒の販売もサービスも一切ございません”メッセージを知らなかったもので、おいおい、、、ちょっと待って〜状態。その名も<The Cave>と呼ばれる、カルフールのお酒セクションは、ハエさん1匹入れないくらいしっかりと密封されているし、近くのバーも1ヶ月閉店 (お店としての予想年間収入額、ラマダン月を入れないで計算しているのかな?と余計な心配してしまいました)。とりあえず、オオラフさん、来年度のラマダンに向けて、大きな学びがありました(今年はフェリーでスペインまで行って”買付”してきましたが、来年は早めの準備など、、、)。

“The Fifth WOW!” Just like everyone fasts together, everyone celebrates together. As its holy month of Ramadan ends, there comes Eid Al-Fitr. and it seems to me, very similar to Japanese OSyogatsu. Wear nice clothes, gather with family & friends, eat festive breakfast! Apparently, kids receive money? like Otoshidama. So many similarities. 🙂 

ラマダンが終了すると、イードがやってきますが、すると今度はまさに<日本のお正月>的になるようでして、新しいお洋服で着飾って、家族やお友達とあつまってお食事をして(おせちみたいに)、そうそう、子供達はお金をもらったりするようですよ(お年玉🧧?)。聞いた話ですが、旦那様から奥様に『ラマダン中、おつかれ〜』とプレゼントをする文化もあるんだとか?いいですねぇ。

During this Ramadan in Morocco, I grew even more respect toward people in Morocco. Their patience, their commitment, and their love for the family, friends, community, and even their newcomers from other countries, like us… I have been so lucky to be able to notice their wonderfulness. Through people here, I can see God’s amazing work. Eid Mubarak! Peace be upon you – all of you. 

モロッコでのラマダンを体験して、この国の方たちへの尊敬の念がさらに増えた気がします。みなさんの忍耐強さ、献身的なところ、そして家族や友達への愛情、また、私たちのような、海外から来た隣人へも手を差し伸べてくれる温かさ。本当に、この国に住めて&そういったところを感じる事ができて幸せだなぁと思います。きっと神様(どの神様でもいいんです)が一人一人の中にいるんだろうなぁ。。。世界中のみなさんに平和が注ぎ込まれますように。

Tomo

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